Anger a word away from Danger

Always try to keep your cool. Your anger makes the others worried& tensed. Ofcourse you are going to loose the control over the situation. So, control your anger before it controls you.
The common reaction of anger is responding aggressively. We need to learn how to control our reactions. The output result anger is not going to be good. It can effect your relations seriously. When you try to resolve the things with a cool head you can expect better results out the task you are trying to perform or trying to get it performed.
So, try to be cool and calm. Then you can be collective & get e better result.
You can refer the post Cool, Calm and Collective for a better understanding.

Over-come worry

Worry is an extension of fear and can be a very draining experience. We imagine that something bad might happen. What we are worrying about has not happened yet, however, so this bad thing is by definition a fantasy. Understood this way, worry is a self-created state of NEEDLESS FEAR. Still, most of us worry.

There're various reasons we worry about. One reason we worry is because, we feel like we're not in control. For example, you might worry about your loved ones driving home in bad weather or late during night. To be frank, there is nothing you can do to guarantee their safe passage, but you worry until you find out they have reached their destination unharmed. However, worrying does nothing to ensure a positive outcome and it has an unpleasant effect on your body, mind, and spirit. So, both the ways worrying harm us.
The good news is that there are ways to transform this kind of worry so that it has a healing effect. Just as worry uses the imagination, so does the antidote to worry. Next time you find that you are worrying, imagine best result instead of anticipating the worst outcome. Visualize your loved ones' path bathed in white light and clearly see in your mind's eye their safe arrival. Imagine angels or guides watching over them as they make their way home. Generate peace and well-being instead of nervousness and unease within yourself.

Another reason we worry is that something that we know is pending but are avoiding is nagging . For example an unpaid parking ticket, an upcoming test, an issue with a friend. In these cases, acknowledging that we are worried and taking action is the best solution. If you can confront the situation and own your power to change it, you'll have no reason to worry.

So, DO NOT WORRY.

Suggestions for SUCCESS

I was trying to figure out a few points out of lives of legends from the history. I've come out 14 points that can be suggested for every common man's life to lead to a successful life.

1. Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.

2. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

3. Be forgiving of yourself and others.

4. Be generous.

5. Have a grateful heart.

6. Persistence, persistence, persistence.

7. Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary.

8. Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.

9. Commit yourself to quality.

10. Be loyal.

11. Be honest.

12. Be a self-starter.

13. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility of every area of your life.

14. Take good care of those you love.

Never forget that SUCCESS is not destination. It is a journey.

Setting our next step

Whats next in my life? Each of us, ask this question to thyself one day or the other. So, each of us know the importance this simple question carries to each of our lives. How to get a proper solution for this question?

There are many ways to discover what the next step of our life's path sould be. It is very important to trust yourself because only you know what is best for you. Don't be strict on yourself. That even does not mean, setting some meaningless goals.

When figuring out what your next step will be, you may want to review your life experiences. Choices and dreams that you have and had can give you some idea of what you would like to do next or might be willing to get rid of. Your future goal can give you even a better idea.

Are you not able to concentrate on your next step? Visualize all the good things around you. It will give you a fresh ideas to look into the depth of your next move. This can satisfy you.

Who is Perfect?

This post of mine is a bit controversial. Feel free to express your views on this.

Is there any human being who is Mr. Perfect or Miss/ Mrs Perfect? When we make mistakes, we think that we are failing or not measuring up. But if life is about experimenting, experiencing, and learning, then to be imperfect is a prerequisite. Life becomes much more interesting once we let go of our quest for perfection and aspire for imperfection instead.

This doesn’t mean that we don’t strive to be our best. We simply accept that there is no such thing as perfection—especially in life. Perfection may happen in a moment, but it will not last because it is an impermanent state. Trying to hold on to perfection or forcing it to happen causes frustration and unhappiness.

In spite of this, many of us are in the habit of trying to be perfect. One way to nudge ourselves out of this tendency is to look at our lives and notice that no one is judging us to see whether or not we are perfect. Everyone is busy with their own lives. No one has time to justify you. We are adults now, and we can choose to let go of the need to perform for someone else’s approval. Similarly, we can choose to experience the universe as a loving place where we are free to be imperfect. Once we realize this, we can begin to take ourselves less seriously and have more fun. Imperfection is inherent to being human. By embracing your imperfections, you embrace yourself.